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Originally posted by athenaia:
Hi Lacey, In a lot of ways this is compelling synastry. You're both Mars-ruled Suns, his Moon is on your IC (and helps your Aries stellium feel complete). Your Sun is Aries is drawn to his emotional expression and your Venus is titillated by his Venus closing in an opposition with yours (and his Pluto there to boot). So he has a very seductive siren's song for you.
I think that your Moon is uncomfortable because his Saturn and Jupiter are forming a t-square with it. So at times you feel an immense revitalization when in his presence, like anything is possible (Jupiter) and at other times you might feel like he's holding you at arm's length, judging you unfairly for simple kinds of expression and maybe not reciprocating that 100% (Saturn)
Your Aries stellium falls in his 1st and 12th house - so with your stuff on his ASC, he is extremely attracted to you. Might have been love/lust at first sight for him. Your Venus is in his 2nd house, so he could feel possessive over you on some level (his Scorpio sun likes feeling this way). Your Moon is in his 6th house, and maybe if he has some Virgo placements he would really like that.
The house patterns are also lukewarm on his end - his Sun is in y our 11th house, Mercury in your 10th, his Mars/Venus/Pluto in your 12th. Mars is conjunct your ASC, along with his Jupiter, so the attraction between you both is very mutual.
You could argue there's a Mars/ASC double whammy here (which shows itself in the composite), so that elevates this synastry from the platonic to the sexual/very chemistry-laden.
Your Aries stellium is trine his Sagittarius stellium which is a good thing.... Aries/Sag are very drawn to each other. I constantly see this romantic pairing ad nauseam throughout my life.
I think the composite stellium is the kiss of death here though. Mind you I'm no Todd/Stoika and I don't have the brilliance to discern what's going on with the midpoints, but the Sun/Neptune/Mercury/Uranus/Mars all being in the 12th house (mostly in Capricorn, no less) could signify that this won't get off the ground. Or that it will be a very unconventional commitment if it ever gets to that point.
Jupiter/Pluto/Saturn are transiting your composite Sun/Neptune right now so I'm not sure the romantic timing is the best at the moment?
Plus transit Saturn will be conjunct the Mars/ASC for the majority of 2021 so I'm not sure that would lend to commitment necessarily...
I'm not really fond of t. Saturn transiting a composite angle. I remember reading that Stoika also felt this was a bad omen for a composite. Personal experience speaking, when t. Saturn starting transiting the IC of me and my ex-boyfriend's composite, our once stable relationship became very rocky and turned into an on-and-off relationship until finally disintegrating permanently. So the idea that t. Saturn will soon be square the composite IC axis doesn't bode well imo.
I think he finds you compelling and attractive. Your Node on his DSC, your Sun on his ASC... like you definitely catch his eye and must be on his mind quite a bit.
I'm mostly just tripped up by the 12th house stuff here since neither of you are VERY Neptunian/Pisces affiliated. I mean he does have Moon in the 12th so maybe he likes this will-they-or-won't-they energy more than you do? That in between of being a couple but not quite?
I think it could work non-traditionally but hopefully Todd and Stoika can chime in if they have time
Thank you, athenaia, you always know what to say. I’ve been feeling very unsure about this relationship. His unaspected Sun along with the hard Saturn is very troubling to me. I might just cut my losses at this point and move on. I am a private person as well but he takes it to a different level. Lol. Thank you again.